Gestapo spouses, was Re: Need advice

That is the problem, Cameron. At least here in Brazil, it is **very** difficult to find a spouse who is completely deatached from your personal toys. Most of the girls I know think it is junk, and all of them think the toys will be a nuisanse on the marriage (I feel my english today is being terrible, why some days I write such a bad english?). I understand that marrying the girl I'm dating, I'll have no desire for old computers :) But I do like my toys and she finds it boring, but says it would respect and keep my (toys) things untouched. It is a very complicated subject. I still think that it is better to live free and play hard. I don't like when my friends are gathered in our "private" hackerspace, and the wife calls him home RIGHT NOW. I feel that there must be another way of living in a pair. And please, no geek larva, I have too much psycological troubles to transmit to a fork of myself. Better be alone than create another monster Oh my, I feel so lonely, but it is so good to be lonely :D