My friend (and I, for that matter), would never
condone software piracy,
in all seriousness. However (again, hypothetically speaking of course)
my friend would have a lot of trouble understanding how posessing and
running an old, obsoleted version of VMS would bring harm to anybody or to
any organization. He might also be very disappointed that there were no
available inexpensive hobbyist licenses available, which, if one existed,
he would certainly jump at and support with his own hard earned money,
quite happily.
So, you and your friend might want to webulate over to
http://www.montagar.com/hobbyist/index.html for starters.
Hope this helps.
-Frank McConnell