On Mon, 9 Jul 2001, Brian Knittel wrote:
Up to a point I find the off-topic stuff kind of funny... it's like
a small town where all the old retired guys sit on the front
porch of the old hardware store and BS all day.
But when the stort of stuff we're seeing lately shows up,
it's no longer charming. The types who engage in the invective
we're seeing thrive on attention. Argument and returned insults
are exactly what they're seeking. The response should be cold silence.
Don't respond to it, don't argue with them, don't acknowledge
their presence on the porch until they act like adults.
That's my two bits worth.
Brian
Physician, heal thyself?
It's not invective, but this particular argument-from-psychology is
invariably belittling to its objects. Same difference in my
book. If it fits, fine, but it's flatly wrong in this case, with respect
to these participants.
"Sometimes a banana is just a banana." Having an opinion and expressing
it, in a culture where silence is taken as assent to countering views, is
not the same thing as seeking attention. It can be a matter of
self-preservation, in fact. Or not, but that's a judgement call.
My 0x0010 cents,
jbdigriz