Not _all_ 8 year olds will be able to solder, or will
want to solder, but
 some will. And there's no reason not to let them have a go if they want
 to. It never did me any harm... 
Heh.  Depends on how you define "harm".  I have a permanent scar up my left
wrist where I was soldering some HO scale train track together with the solder
gun.  All things considered it was a learning experience... mind where your
gun tip is at all times. :)    Seriously, a lot of people would cringe at the
idea of their child doing that, but c'mon, folks... I lived. :)
As far as good kits, Tech America, Frys (for those of you in the SF bay area)
and a number of the surplus houses sell honest to god solder the component on
the board kits.  Jameco also has them.
--
Jim Strickland
jim(a)DIESPAMMERSCUMcalico.litterbox.com
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