Chris M wrote...
  sorry, but it always seems to be the person who
 responds to name calling with name calling who gets
 the reprimand. 
 Well then officially and in plain sight, let me say that
 I post a reprimand while reading a thread and it may or
 may not be the primary offender.
 I don't read every thread on the list. It's possible I
 stumble across something after several things have gone
 on already. It's a whole lot easier for me to just shout
 out "don't make me turn this car around..."  than it is
 to go back and figure out who started it and who was the
 "worse" offender ;)
 Loosely translated, don't take it personally :> 
But Dad... he was looking out _MY_ window!