Jesus, Jay, if that's the bottom line, just go
ahead and do it, because
otherwise people are just going to keep pushing or reacting until you
do. Just human nature.
If you're saying that if your own (and others) lack of self control
causes Jay to stop the list, and that you don't care if he does,
then I'm definitely not with you.
I won't be threatened into policing my speech for
anybody.
If you want any friends here, then change your tune.
John A.