For all you B&M types out there: it would help if
you remembered that
you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar, particularly when
the people are working as volunteers.
And not a word about how lovely and mature Dave is to take his marbles
and go home in a snit - reneging on his earlier statement (I'd even say
"commitment") that he'd make the source available when he was no longer
able or willing to maintain it himself, I might note - because someone
points out that he's _wrong_ in thinking that no harm is done by
ivory-tower "you'll get it when I think it's good and ready"
development?
I went back and reread the note that Dave is (apparently) reacting to:
< I am not sure you've done no harm by so doing... I know for a fact
< that at least one person was working on an open-source disk archiver,
< but has dropped that project, at least for the moment, because he
< doesn't want to create yet another incompatible file format, and
< would have wanted to see how you did things (not wasting time
< re-inventing the wheel and all that). We'd all better hope his pile
< of hard-to-find disks [...] remain[s] readable a little longer.
This hardly qualifies as bitching and moaning to me, with the
*possible* exception of the last sentence.
Of course, Dave's choice of reaction to this information is up to him.
But really, after rereading the full note I quoted from (there's a good
deal more to it, but I don't think the above is unrepresentative - I'd
call it all fair and polite criticism), and rereading Dave's reaction,
it's pretty clear to me which one is more "bitching and moaning".
Yes, I too hope Dave reconsiders. But I don't think stifling fair
criticism - and that's what I think it was - because its target reacts
badly to it is ever a good idea.
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