>Like any show - computers, cars, dogs, model
trains, stamps, sex toys
>- always far more social than stuff-oriented.
MOST hobbies, especially sex toys, are more fun with somebody else.
But computers can be enjoyed in quiet isolation.
>Just make sure you get enough pizzas and beer.
When this thread started, Tony very politely bowed out of going with an
excuse ("mostly financial").
We (I) were insensitive, and called him on his excuse, with offers to
handle the financial aspects. He did NOT gratuitously insult those
involved.
We PUSHED Tony to reveal his "real reasons", and eventually he did. Now
some people are grievously offended by why he feels that it would be
better not to go.
That was due to MY insensitivity, NOT Tony's manners.
If you feel that Tony's "social graces" are inadequate, then don't go
have
pizza and beer with him!
Personally, there is nobody on this list that I wouldn't be willing to
have pizza and beer with, but there are probably many who wouldn't want to
associate suchly with me.
(especially since I don't drink beer or eat
pizza).
Think of it as also being figurative. I enjoy talking to everybody
here. We may call each other on any mistakes made (Hi, Dan!), but we
still like each other.
I won't be going to VCF-UK, and have even had to miss LOCAL VCFs!
But, find each other and have a pint. Because I'm not going to be there,
I am not offering to buy. (Prices have probably gone up since the days of
"A pint's a pound, the world around")
Something to think about for sure; I may end up
actually thanking Evan one
day for finally showing me the light.
Even if I were to start actively giving all of this crap away, there would
still be a lot left when I die. Rather than risk a Maslin, I've asked my
executioner (and I intend to add it as a codicil) to make every effort to
get hold of this list, Sellam, and Tony to "get rid of all that useless
obsolete crap" (her words). She would be willing to mail the Tessina to
Tony, but if he wants the Epson QX10 (I need to confirm where it is) or
the Linhof, then he will have to get actively involved in the shipping.
Now, maybe THAT will get Tony out of the house :-), but I won't live to
see it.
--
Grumpy Ol' Fred cisin at
xenosoft.com