Perhaps I am just weird, but I rarely damage circuit boards or components
when de-soldering. I have a Hakko 808 de-soldering gun.
The biggest things I have learned from de-soldering are:
Add fresh solder where you are able to, I have notices as solder ages and
oxidizes it gets to be a nightmare to melt. Also fresh Flux can help some
times.
Keep your de-soldering nozzle cleaned, I use the sponge on my Hakko 936 ESD
safe temp controlled solder station.
Once you hear the de-soldering gun start to labor, you need to check for
obstructions, and make sure your receptacle is NOT full of solder and the
flux filter is not plugged up.
I am at the point on it where 95% of the time I can get IC sockets out of pc
boards without damaging them. And have yet to *knock on wood* lift a trace
on a board I was repairing, including the ATARI XF551 single sided boards
where the traces are held on with good wishes.
That isn't to say I haven't pulled components from boards and then been
amazed at the crap that some manufacturers put into their products. I'd
rather pay 5-10$ more and have a manufacturer use quality components :(
I wish my AOIUE hot air rework station also had a good de-solder gun on it,
that way I wouldn't need 3 or 4 things to do the builds and repairs on
equipment.