The guy was
trying to preserve something important to him, and you
tried to humiliate him for it.
I didn't try to humiliate anyone.
That's certainly how it came across to me, and I'm not even one of the
principals involved. You may want to have a look at your communication
style, since it appears you're generating impressions you don't intend
- unless of course you just didn't care whether you came across as
trying to be humiliating. (Or, I suppose, unless the humiliating
attitude comes so naturally to you you don't even have to try - but
that's not how you've usually come across to me, so it seems unlikely.)
You're not the list etiquette cop, so I can only
interpret this as a
personal gripe.
Actually, from my time here, I'd say that everyone is list etiquette
cop - get excessive and various people will cluestick you for it,
roughly in proportion to the severity of the offense.
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