I'm not very keen on microcontroller hacking.
Which one would you
 recommend for something like this?  I'm guessing that for a fixed-speed
 job, you'd have the microcontroller, two MAX232 chips, and not much else. 
Doesn't much matter - the task is simple enough that pretty much any
architecture will work. Heres some things to consider when selecting
one:
- Two UARTS - as noted previously this is not a show-stopper requirement,
  however it will make your life a lot easier. The alternatives are to
  bit-bash the slower port which requires careful timing and/or interrupts
  and is probably not a good starter project, or to add an external UART -
  which means you will have to wire an external bus.
- Internal RAM. The more the better, because the larger you can make your
  buffers, the more efficient your flow control will be (there's always
  some small delay with starting/stopping ... especially of you need to
  use XON/XOFF type control). Assuming you have flow control available,
  then 128-256 bytes in each direction should be fine (if the fast computer
  never asserts flow control on receive data then you could get away with
  less (none) on the slow->fast direction. If the fast side does not accept
  fow control, then you are going to need a LOT of buffer in the fast->slow
  direction and you will most likly have to wire an external bus with
  external memory. With hardware flow control you can probably get away
  with less, XON/XOFF you might get away with 64 - I've seen 30-40+ characters
  come out of some devices AFTER the XOFF character was received, so plan
  your code accordingly.
- Flash based - if don't have programming tools, embedded debuggers etc.
  a flash based MCU will be much easier to work with - normally you just
  need a cable to your PC and you simply reload code directly into the
  microcontroller flash.
- Any of the 8-bit Motorola, Intel, Atmel or many others should do fine,
  use the above criteria to pick a really suitable one.
Dave
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